LOVE MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE IN SL

LOVE MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE IN SL

Since the time our human race has begin. Man has tried to understand Love.Phylosophies came and went, Casanovas took birth and died, Prince and princesses fought for it to either end up and die empty handed or feel the beauty of the heaven living in love. But what so ever …Love would never be defined or explained…it would can and will only be felt.

As the alchemists said” Everything is me” so Love and love in SL can not be two different things no matter how hard we might try to make it so. And it’s a good idea to consider it one…gives us a good feeling coz anyway every moment and bit-by-bit we are continuously trying to make SL as realistic as possible.

SL or let me say “SL love”. Some times seems far more beautiful than RL love.

We have walked through the endless lands of SL as singles with wind blowing and bringing with itself the hope of a partner waiting for us, who would bring in the contentment, happiness and a real SL life for us.

A partner who would without a moment’s pause loves us and takes us to the heavens alive.

And as the Pagans say “Everything is possible when you are in love” and then as if to. demonstrate- Rate it we create; we create and bring to life the most romantic places world has ever seen in real life.

And like this love comes and happens to even those people for the very first time.

The grass is at it’s best of the green shades and the most beautiful butterflies gather around and flutter between the two pair of eyes fixed on sticking to each..Red hearts flying all over,and the cupid does not have to be around to make them fall in love…their souls are already.. immersed…in the deep blue ocean like eyes full of love. When a single hug. Between the cloud of kisses says it all and u know the heart knows that it has found it’s soul mate.

But the mind needs a testification .The heart beats faster and confirms the love being real …but its mind’s intensity that overpowers it and asks for a proof. Because the mind is scared of pain, loss and emotional crash…it wants to own the person in front of it and needs a commitment. The mind has heard and seen the stories around having a sad endings so it demands a commitment..

But when the two hearts are bound by ‘agape’ which is the highest form of love, they are scared of no test..No proof can shake..Or shatter them.

The hearts want themselves to be consumed and owned completely by each other. Love is such strength that the hearts are no more scared of getting destroyed. And it’s than the marriage comes in.

The long wished and imagined dreams of the mind gets connected with the heart and by the time marriage ceremony is over the heart is so overwhelmed that the eyes swim and the laughter is endless.

And that’s how the SL marriage is as real as one can take any marriage in real life.

The responsibility flows in and now with every circle of sun round the clock the heart wakes up and goes to sleep providing eyes with the most beautiful views and dreams they had ever witnessed.

There are other moments, which make it bitter, but bitterness makes the sweet moments sweeter.

And as the marriage moves on we tend to hold a lot and gradually we being tending to grab and capture. But love is like a spring breeze. It’s cool and refreshing. But we feel it only till the time our palms are open, fingers loose, not trying to grab or grip anything as soon as the fingers close upon our palms and we try to grab hold of the spring breeze we find ourselves standing empty handed and the heat of our own wasteful attempts turn on to our palms. So we need to keep our hands loose and ungripping in a relationship in order to still feel the love, which is not very different from the spring breeze. But failing to do so we tend to increase the heat to such an extent sometimes that we are certain to loose it all and witness the death of our dreams and then the heart suffers eyes dry up within days or in hours but the heart cries no friend seems to be healing the wounds that go lost love leave our hearts with.

We must therefore understand that love is like a spring breeze. It’s beautiful till the time our hands are open to feel it but is gone as soon as we fold our fingers. The spring breeze comes and goes and so does the love. But love can be made to stay forever if we just learn to keep our hands open. But we fail to do so all of us! At least once.

And then the heart suffers it faces loneliness it screams it cannot handle what it has taken. It has seen what no heart in the world would want but the conditions and the mind demands it.

The heart faces a Divorce.

The day human mind would understand that the spring breeze could be felt only till the time our fists are open everything will be all right. But till that time hearts will keep on trying to go close to the soul of the universe via love and marriages would remain to be compulsory and necessary, Divorce will keep on flowing.

And like it the prosperity of the heart to search for love, it will again help you move on.

And till the time the second stage would come into existence under the command of the mind the third stage would be inevitable.